Taking a moment and regrouping after a stressful day at work, where 8 hours was spent dealing with 'stupid' and everyone saw it fit to test my patience .... is bliss ๐
We often hear this question, but there is no one size fits all answer. Factors like your gender, location, attractiveness and education would be influential factors.
My husband and I live in Cape Town, South Africa. People here are rather conservative, even though there is an active swinger scene. We are not part of it.